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5 Simple Tips to Find Your Perfect Match


Dating in 2020 can be hard. There are so many ways to date right now and not every option works well for everyone. You have online dating, going to the bar dating, blind dating events and of course the tried and true going to the supermarket and bumping into someone dating. The truth is if you’re looking to find your perfect match, you may have too many options.

If you’re on a dating journey and wondering how to find that perfect person, keep reading, these tips will help you focus your dating journey and help you find that perfect person.

Find your perfect match by knowing what you want

You need to know what you want in your perfect match. Ask yourself the following questions.

  • How do they act?
  • What do they love to do?
  • How do they treat you?
  • What does their education look like
  • Do they want kids, do you want kids?
  • Age range

Keep yourself from concentrating on looks for this list. Attraction does matter, but you are trying to find a great match, not arm candy.

Get Specific with your Online Dating

We have all heard about Match, Tinder, and E-harmony, but these are general dating sites. Will this work for you? Probably, however if you are looking for someone who is a Christian and you don’t want to date just anyone, you may want to look at Christan dating sites. These specialized sites are great ways to meet people who follow your faith. There are many out there like Date Christian Singles that allow you to search a database full of people who follow your faith.

There are sites out there for any faith, hobby or lifestyle. Just do a quick google search to find a specialized dating site for you.

Pictures are important

If you’re doing online dating of any kind you want to make sure your pictures are perfect, by perfect I don’t mean professional shots. I mean pictures that show the real you. Have a face shot, a full body shot and a few pictures of you doing things you love to do.

If someone is really looking for a long term relationship they want to know more about you, not just what you look like. Since most people are visual people having great pictures is the best way to showcase your life loves.

If your still not sure what photos to take check out this post from The Art of Charm. It covers what types of photos you need to have, along with ones to avoid.

Make sure you know who you are

This may be the most important tip I have for you. You need to have a good idea of who you are by yourself. If you are someone who doesn’t feel complete without another person you may want to take a step back and find yourself first. It’s not going to be easy, but it will make your dating life better.

Figuring out who you are and not being afraid to be you is the best way to attract someone who is your perfect match. They will love you for you, not someone you are pretending to be. Find a hobby or join a group or class to help grow your life and make yourself a bit more interesting.

You could also look into self-help books. I know it’s cliche but, they do work. They can help you to figure out who you are, and be a stronger person on your own. One of my favorites is a book for women called Secrets of Six-Figure Women, it’s a book focused on business, but really covers making you a better you. You check out my book review if you want to learn more.

Don’t be afraid to just date

Some people have a problem with dating, they find that one they think is perfect and only stick with them. Sometimes that works, other times you end up heartbroken and wondering what is wrong with you.

Dating is not a bad thing. If you’re just starting out plan out how often you want to date and how many people a week or month you want to date. Make yourself date around. This is the best way to find out what you like in a match and what you really don’t like.

I hope these five tips will help you to find your perfect match. It won’t happen overnight, but with time, a few or a lot of dates and some inner refection you will find the one that you are meant to be with.

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